Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving! Today I wanted to share my breastfeeding story. It’s incredible how different one child can be from the next, and how much easier it can be the second time around. Of course, we’ve got a long way to go. But all the experiences I’ve had with Aden as a baby have definitely taught me so much, making things like breastfeeding much more enjoyable with Ariah.
With Aden, breastfeeding was hard. It didn’t come as naturally as we’re meant to believe. Aden wasn’t latching properly, which meant I experienced soreness, my nipples were callused and I was in pain for about 8 weeks. I was having a hard time keeping up my supply of milk and it was taking a major emotional toll on me. All this in the midst of things I had to learn and research as a new mom – it was important to know, for example that I needed to eat right while breastfeeding to give my baby what he needed. (What we eat can even contribute to whether or not the baby gets colic.) There was just so much to learn, and so much I wanted to be able to do. I wanted so desperately to breastfeed that when it didn’t seem like a viable option, I broke down. But I was determined not to give up.
I know I’m not the only woman to have felt this way. In fact, I didn’t have it as bad as some women do. Breastfeeding can come easy and it can be nearly impossible. There are a ton of reasons for this, but the one that affected me was Aden’s latch. It took some time, but I finally learned how to get the right latch, and then breastfeeding was much easier. Let me tell you you, if breastfeeding is important to you, do not leave the hospital unless you’ve had the right latch with your baby!
When it came time to breastfeed Ariah, I have to admit I was a little worried. I wanted to be sure that I could give her my antibodies, feed her nutrients and give her enough of my milk to help prevent her from getting sick. Thankfully my worries were unwarranted. I took everything I learned from my experience with Aden and Ariah had the perfect latch from day one. The nurses even commented that they wished Ariah could teach the other babies there! Lol.
Where breastfeeding with Aden was challenging, with Ariah it’s been unbelievable. I can’t fully express how it actually feels, but the bond it’s building between us is amazing. I cherish every second I can sit down and feed her. It’s our private time together, and I really find it so relaxing. It makes me feel good to know that I can give her everything that her body needs, and I plan to do so until she’s one year. And women must do what’s right for their baby–which can include bottle feeding of course. In that case, I’ve discovered that Gentle Gerber formula is best!
I’ve learned to trust my baby.
I hope hearing my story will help any new mommas out there! Share your experiences with me in the comments.
Xx,
Tamera
With Aden, breastfeeding was hard. It didn’t come as naturally as we’re meant to believe. Aden wasn’t latching properly, which meant I experienced soreness, my nipples were callused and I was in pain for about 8 weeks. I was having a hard time keeping up my supply of milk and it was taking a major emotional toll on me. All this in the midst of things I had to learn and research as a new mom – it was important to know, for example that I needed to eat right while breastfeeding to give my baby what he needed. (What we eat can even contribute to whether or not the baby gets colic.) There was just so much to learn, and so much I wanted to be able to do. I wanted so desperately to breastfeed that when it didn’t seem like a viable option, I broke down. But I was determined not to give up.
I know I’m not the only woman to have felt this way. In fact, I didn’t have it as bad as some women do. Breastfeeding can come easy and it can be nearly impossible. There are a ton of reasons for this, but the one that affected me was Aden’s latch. It took some time, but I finally learned how to get the right latch, and then breastfeeding was much easier. Let me tell you you, if breastfeeding is important to you, do not leave the hospital unless you’ve had the right latch with your baby!
When it came time to breastfeed Ariah, I have to admit I was a little worried. I wanted to be sure that I could give her my antibodies, feed her nutrients and give her enough of my milk to help prevent her from getting sick. Thankfully my worries were unwarranted. I took everything I learned from my experience with Aden and Ariah had the perfect latch from day one. The nurses even commented that they wished Ariah could teach the other babies there! Lol.
Where breastfeeding with Aden was challenging, with Ariah it’s been unbelievable. I can’t fully express how it actually feels, but the bond it’s building between us is amazing. I cherish every second I can sit down and feed her. It’s our private time together, and I really find it so relaxing. It makes me feel good to know that I can give her everything that her body needs, and I plan to do so until she’s one year. And women must do what’s right for their baby–which can include bottle feeding of course. In that case, I’ve discovered that Gentle Gerber formula is best!
I’ve learned to trust my baby.
I hope hearing my story will help any new mommas out there! Share your experiences with me in the comments.
Xx,
Tamera
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Thank you so much for sharing Tamera. As a new mom I’m going through the emotional roller coaster of wanting to breastfeed; but my milk supply isn’t quite there. I’ve been reading and following your stories on IG and you have helped me along this journey. My optimal goal is to bf until he’s 1 years of age. He’s now 2 mos and I’m still learning about the latching and pumping experience. I admit it’s emotional but I will do whatever it takes to get me there. Continue to blog and post on IG. I look forward to reading your IG and experiences.
God Bless,
@bondsgyrl
Tamera…this is a beautiful testimony! God bless you for sharing. Breastfeeding is an amazing experience but it can be tough. My daughter is 5 now and I find myself missing the closeness and high level of bonding she and had. I am trying to have another baby. I look foward to using what I learned and the advice you have provided when it happens :)
Thanks for sharing Tamera! My baby girl is 7 weeks old and from day one I knew I was going to breastfeed.My daughter latched on great but my number 1 worry is scheduling her feeds. I would love if you could share some of your tips on scheduling the feedings and how do you know when your little one is finished. I feel like my baby wants to nurse all the time.
Never schedule feedings. Babies are meant to be fed on demand. Never watch the clock either. They will eat as often as necessary. They will have days when they nurse endlessly this is do to growth spurts. All babies are different and it’s a huge learning curve with each one. Good job getting to 7 weeks!
So happy for you…beautiful moments…
Go Tamera! I love your story and you are truly an inspiration to many new and hopeful mothers who want to breast feed as well. I to am a very high advocate. I nursed my first son for 15 months. He was destined to be breast fed. He latched on our first feeding at the hospital and did it from that day to the 15th month of his little life.Its amazing.
I had my second son we didn’t go for as long as I hoped for and I was very discouraged but then I had to lift the load off from myself and realize that I did try. I encourage any mother who is choosing to nurse their baby to NEVER give up. If hard, hurting, or you aren’t producing enough to feed your baby, seek help. There are many lactation specialist and mothers who have been there that would love to help you on your journey. Its possible, it beautiful and there’s nothing like it.Thanks again Tamera! God bless you and your family as well.