Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving! Today I wanted to share my breastfeeding story. It’s incredible how different one child can be from the next, and how much easier it can be the second time around. Of course, we’ve got a long way to go. But all the experiences I’ve had with Aden as a baby have definitely taught me so much, making things like breastfeeding much more enjoyable with Ariah.
With Aden, breastfeeding was hard. It didn’t come as naturally as we’re meant to believe. Aden wasn’t latching properly, which meant I experienced soreness, my nipples were callused and I was in pain for about 8 weeks. I was having a hard time keeping up my supply of milk and it was taking a major emotional toll on me. All this in the midst of things I had to learn and research as a new mom – it was important to know, for example that I needed to eat right while breastfeeding to give my baby what he needed. (What we eat can even contribute to whether or not the baby gets colic.) There was just so much to learn, and so much I wanted to be able to do. I wanted so desperately to breastfeed that when it didn’t seem like a viable option, I broke down. But I was determined not to give up.
I know I’m not the only woman to have felt this way. In fact, I didn’t have it as bad as some women do. Breastfeeding can come easy and it can be nearly impossible. There are a ton of reasons for this, but the one that affected me was Aden’s latch. It took some time, but I finally learned how to get the right latch, and then breastfeeding was much easier. Let me tell you you, if breastfeeding is important to you, do not leave the hospital unless you’ve had the right latch with your baby!
When it came time to breastfeed Ariah, I have to admit I was a little worried. I wanted to be sure that I could give her my antibodies, feed her nutrients and give her enough of my milk to help prevent her from getting sick. Thankfully my worries were unwarranted. I took everything I learned from my experience with Aden and Ariah had the perfect latch from day one. The nurses even commented that they wished Ariah could teach the other babies there! Lol.
Where breastfeeding with Aden was challenging, with Ariah it’s been unbelievable. I can’t fully express how it actually feels, but the bond it’s building between us is amazing. I cherish every second I can sit down and feed her. It’s our private time together, and I really find it so relaxing. It makes me feel good to know that I can give her everything that her body needs, and I plan to do so until she’s one year. And women must do what’s right for their baby–which can include bottle feeding of course. In that case, I’ve discovered that Gentle Gerber formula is best!
I’ve learned to trust my baby.
I hope hearing my story will help any new mommas out there! Share your experiences with me in the comments.
Xx,
Tamera
With Aden, breastfeeding was hard. It didn’t come as naturally as we’re meant to believe. Aden wasn’t latching properly, which meant I experienced soreness, my nipples were callused and I was in pain for about 8 weeks. I was having a hard time keeping up my supply of milk and it was taking a major emotional toll on me. All this in the midst of things I had to learn and research as a new mom – it was important to know, for example that I needed to eat right while breastfeeding to give my baby what he needed. (What we eat can even contribute to whether or not the baby gets colic.) There was just so much to learn, and so much I wanted to be able to do. I wanted so desperately to breastfeed that when it didn’t seem like a viable option, I broke down. But I was determined not to give up.
I know I’m not the only woman to have felt this way. In fact, I didn’t have it as bad as some women do. Breastfeeding can come easy and it can be nearly impossible. There are a ton of reasons for this, but the one that affected me was Aden’s latch. It took some time, but I finally learned how to get the right latch, and then breastfeeding was much easier. Let me tell you you, if breastfeeding is important to you, do not leave the hospital unless you’ve had the right latch with your baby!
When it came time to breastfeed Ariah, I have to admit I was a little worried. I wanted to be sure that I could give her my antibodies, feed her nutrients and give her enough of my milk to help prevent her from getting sick. Thankfully my worries were unwarranted. I took everything I learned from my experience with Aden and Ariah had the perfect latch from day one. The nurses even commented that they wished Ariah could teach the other babies there! Lol.
Where breastfeeding with Aden was challenging, with Ariah it’s been unbelievable. I can’t fully express how it actually feels, but the bond it’s building between us is amazing. I cherish every second I can sit down and feed her. It’s our private time together, and I really find it so relaxing. It makes me feel good to know that I can give her everything that her body needs, and I plan to do so until she’s one year. And women must do what’s right for their baby–which can include bottle feeding of course. In that case, I’ve discovered that Gentle Gerber formula is best!
I’ve learned to trust my baby.
I hope hearing my story will help any new mommas out there! Share your experiences with me in the comments.
Xx,
Tamera
68 Responses
Thanks for sharing Tamera. I recently had my second child and the nursing experience was the complete opposite from yours. This time around I find it much more challenging than the first. And it’s exactly like you described, the latch. My newborn wasn’t latching properly so it is making it tolerable to continue to nurse. I have now resorted to exclusively pumping while I continue to research help for free breastfeeding classes to assist with latching. I have not given up yet but I hope to get some help soon. Your story puts me at ease that I’m not alone and inspires me to keep on trying.
Take some time to see if you can visit an ENT to get the lip or tongue tie fixed. These are typically the number one reasons for a bad latch!
Your experience and information will be helpful for many new mothers. Breastfeeding is a one of the exceedingly wonderful things God has made in women. I never breastfed. At the time I was having children in the 80’s-90’s it was not really done a lot. It’s still not in U.S. But,there is this movement with organic and natural more now. So.. kudos to you for deciding to choose it.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve heard so many different stories it’s good to know it’s not that bad different babies bring out different experiences. Im looking forward to my first. Thank you
When I had my daughter the first letdown was that I couldn’t deliver her through the birth canal and the second was that she refused to breastfeed. I was beating myself up and even thoughtiit was punishment for me being an unwed teen mother. Im 8 years into mothering my daughter and I’ve come torealize that sometimes breastfeeding just doesn’t work out and that’s ok. Doesn’t make me inferior to other moms, just different.
Thank you so much for sharing this! With my first I had the same issues, only it never worked out for me. I was so disappointed because I had always assumed it would just come easily to me! With my second (he is three months old) we finally got the latch down but I was surprised to find that there are so many other challenges in addition to just latching properly and I am almost constantly worrying about supply, especially since having two under two makes it hard to stay hydrated and fed myself. But I have learned that being a mother is tough and loving your baby with all your heart is all that he needs- whether he’s getting breast milk, formula or both.